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Thursday, August 29, 2013

The Wooden Tie - One Year Later -

Hey.

There's a wooden tie hanging on my wall.


Here's the story.

My father held at least forty-seven jobs in his lifetime, never really picking up roots in one particular career.

A month ago, I was checking my email, and noticed that he mailed me some of his writing projects about nine years ago.  Called the email "Just Some Junk To Read", in his true self-deprecating way. I remember reading and discussing his autobiographical accounts. Just didn't realize I still had the copies.

Here's a summation, in his own words, of the the work which shaped him:



  1. Helping my grandfather milk cows  (age 8)
  2. Moving lawns for a real estate salesman (12)
  3. Started own business selling bags of candy (age 13)
  4. Sorting old pennies (14)
  5. Running the gas station and the sporting goods counter at the Buckhorn Lodge (age 14)
  6. Running a switchboard for an old folks home (age 15)
  7. Printers Apprentice  (age 15)
  8. Making Donuts (age 16)
  9. Started window washing business (age 17)
  10. Dishwasher for a Chinese Restaurant (age 17)
  11. Houseman for Del Monte Lodge at Pebble beach (18)
  12. Window washer for Holiday Inn in Carmel (age 18)
  13. Waiter for a Restaurant on the Wharf in Monterey (age 19)
  14. Gas station attendant in Cupertino (age 20)
  15. US Navy (age 20) He served stateside for two years.
  16. Short order cook at EM club (age 21)
  17. Gas station attendant in Monterey (age 24)
  18. Store clerk for Proximity Devices (age 26)
  19. Expediter for Schlage lock (age 26)
  20. Warehouse supervisor for Atari (age 27) This was right when the Atari 2600 (called the VCS until 1982) came out.
  21. Warehouse Manager for Atari (age 28) I was born this year.
  22. Distribution Manager for Warner Brothers (age 29) Atari had been sold to Warner Brothers in 1976, so this was a lateral move.
  23. Started own wood working business (age 29)
  24. Shipping supervisor HH Robertson (age 30)
  25. Material control Supervisor HH Robertson (age 31) Sister born this year.
  26. Computer Supervisor for Gallo Warehouse (age 32)
  27. Delivered Chronicle newspaper (age 32)
  28. Sold at flea markets (age 33) Brother born this year.
  29. Janitor and floor man (age 34)
  30. Delivered newspapers (age 35)
  31. Assembled bulk candy machines and placed them (age 36)
  32. Contract Focus programmer for a risk management company (age 38)
  33. Sold at flea markets (age 38)
  34. Contract Focus programmer for Martin Construction (age 38)
  35. Delivered newspapers (age 38)
  36. Team lead programmer at Quantel Business Systems (age 39)
  37. Warehouse man for Modesto School District (age 40)
  38. Delivered newspapers (age 41)
  39. Started used bike business at home (age 42)
  40. Sold at flea markets (age 43)
  41. Started a store front for used bike business (age 44)
  42. Contract Focus programmer for UCSF (age 46)
  43. Contract Focus programmer for Charles Schwab (age 48)
  44. Contract Focus programmer for Coke in Atlanta (age 50)
  45. Contract Focus programmer for Clorox in Oakland (age 50)
  46. Started Ebay business (age 51)
  47. Crystal programmer for Yosemite Farm Credit (age 52)
 

 On one of his programming jobs, a middle manager ordered my father to dress more formally.

In response, my father headed to the garage. He loved his woodworking time. As a boy, I'd creep into his space, lie flat on the matted clothes which soaked up the floor, and quietly watch him work.

He made several dozen wooden ties over the next few weeks. Wore them to work until management gave up and let him dress as he pleased.

He tried to sell them (along with other handicrafts) when money was tight, but they were just too pretty and weird for anyone to purchase in the flea markets we attended, wedged in between the live chickens and the bootleg VHS tape salesmen.

The weekend after my father died, my brother and sister traveled to Oregon.  Found a cache of the ties tucked in a shed, forgotten by time.

And, a few weeks later, at his rehearsal dinner, my brother offered them as wedding gifts.

Look at them.


There's a precision and a clean, simple beauty to these. He always made things so well, with his two hands.

I look at it constantly. Swinging softly on a hook.  This talisman.

Gonna log off and listen to "Cosmic Love" forty times in a row.

Just like last year.

Love you, Dad.


Friday, August 23, 2013

Carter David - new song for a two year old boy

Hey.

So, here's the silliest thing I've ever written.

And I wrote The Stinky Toe Sandwich Song .

It's for CD, my two year old nephew.

Here ya go.

LYRICS

Chorus

Carter David
Carter David
I'll see you Christmas time
you'll be dancing
I'll be strumming
wick away the rime
just a little while
I'll be on my way
it's such crime
we're apart think and living
til the next season's giving returns

First Verse

You're a big boy now
with a brother and a sister
on their way
you're a big boy now
just like mickey you're a leader
help them play

CHORUS

Second Verse

You're a big boy now
Making tinkle in the potty
going number two
you're a big boy now
know your mother and your father
they are proud of you

CHORUS

Bridge

(a bunch of gibberish)

CHORUS X2



Sunday, August 4, 2013

The Acceptance Speech

Hey.

So, Ghost On a Stick won (tied for) one award tonight:  Outstanding Performance in a Solo Show.





Here's a longer version of the speech I would have given (if the option to give speeches wasn't cut due to time constraints)

Funny, no matter how many times I end up in this situation, I always end up feeling like the homeschooled kid stepping out on the dance floor of a really fancy prom.
               
But here I am.

I'd like to thank the Planet Connections staff for once again offering untold support and assistance in their dedication to making selfless, ethical theatre.

I'd like to thank the spirit of the festivity itself, as it's given me both commercial success and deep, lasting friendships which I never thought possible in just living here a few short years.

I'd like to thank the seventy donors, friends, family and strangers, who believed in me. Really took a hard look and gave me three thousand dollars to make this show come to life. I can no longer say, in my darkest moments, that I have no worth.  The free market, she sings sweetly.  And may that trust, that kindness, grow and spread forth over the rest of my creative days.  May they feel their contributions are a wise and desirable purchase.

I'd like to thank my director, Megan Jeannette Smith. She broke it open, found the love story inside this tale of mental illness and despair. Made the work theatrical.  She's become a dear friend, and I am fiercely proud of the work she's done on this fair show.

I'd like to thank Lauren Bremen and Kortney Barber for their work in lighting/projections and sound design.  They are worth far, far more than what I could pay them, and their ability to work with limited equipment and funds to capture the mood and the frailty of the story was a blessing.

I'd like to thank Fanboy Design for their engaging, iconic work on the website and postcard.  I'd also like to thank Mark Kinch for his breathtaking photography which summons up the world of the play in just a moment.

I'd like to thank Kristen Penner and Lorelei Mackenzie for their counsel and kinship. Dinners spent with them learning the nuts and bolts of how to make a PCTF show successful and fully funded.  Couldn't ask for better teachers and more nurturing friends.

I'd like to thank all those who offered their time and efforts to house management for free during the show.

I'd like to thank her, she who, despite my arrogance in shutting off the door to my heart and stubbornly believing that vulnerability and dating were over in my life, surprised me and awakened that desire once more. Our connection collapsed, me being me and all. But that pulsating loss was kerosene for those sleepless nights, driving me to push further and further as a producer, playwright, and actor.  I see her now, and I still marvel at her being.  She feels rich and familiar, and I hope she'll have me as a friend.

I'd like to thank A.J Ditty, who, after years of just giving up on the play and stuffing it into a floppy disk, convinced me to pull it out and send him a copy.  His response, his decency, his friendship gave me a second wind.

I'd like to thank Tess Suchoff for reviewing future drafts and offering an outsider's point of view.

I'd like to thank one of my oldest friends, Bobby Lux, for living this show's truthful experiences with me, for reading drafts and offering his wise advice.  For helping to promote the show, and for always being in my corner. He's my pocket aces that will never get cracked.

I'd like to thank my mother, brother, and sister, who shake their heads sometimes at the silly, intense things I do, but still champion them.   They're a wonderful family.

Lastly, I'd like to thank the memory of my late father, almost a year since his passing.  He reminds me every single bleeding day to stop thinking about making things, stop talking about making things, and make them. Make them over and over again.  Help others make things.  Stop wasting time and  (to paraphrase Hemingway) make a living out of your death.  I miss you so much, dad.  I'm doing the best I can, and I'm lonely and I'm beaten down and death is always on my mind. But I keep on making things.  Like you taught me.  I've always been an odd one.  Heart of a poet, face of a prison guard.  But through this world of theatre, I'm home.

Let's go out there and keep making things, together.

Thank you.